When we have different stances on relationships in general, when I found out that he/she lied behind my back, when I checked he/she tried to turn people against me, when we have totally different political views, or when I considered people toxic.

I never did it unconsciously; most of the time, when I decided that I wanted people out of my life, I made the decision with full information on hand (or at least enough to leave no room for doubts) and with enough time. For me, it's okay to let people go in my life because, in the end, people come and go; that's what adulting is, and it's totally normal. In addition, when I cut people off, they usually knew what they did and why I decided to do so and I bet they are okay with my decision. They know we didn't get along anyway, so why force the relationship?

However, for those who stay...

Thank you for being my friends. You're all precious. I do not only want you all in my life, but I also wanna be in yours.

Thank you for trusting me and keeping my trust; thank you for growing as we go (as Ben Platt said in one of his songs).

Thank you for your patience in dealing with my weird idealism.

Thank you for criticizing me directly instead of talking behind my back.

Thank you for respecting my boundaries.

Thank you for always being by my side.

You're all my strength and my source of wisdom.

I would not make it without you.

Ya, pokoknya kalau gue masih mau ngajak ketemu tiba-tiba walaupun nggak ada event apa-apa, atau suka chat random, artinya you're one of them <3